First, school is a place for kids to engage with each other socially. In fact, I suggest that socialization is one of the most important aspects of school. Children need time and experiences to help integrate into the real world. Of the most important socialization experiences is the playground.
On the playground kids learn to share, take turns, accept a loss, be gracious in a win....WAIT A MINUTE! Do they really learn this stuff on the playground? Is is through osmosis, or guided instruction? Is it teacher led or a kid free-for-all? Or are there underpaid, under-qualified "yard supervisors", sitting on their asses, talking on their cell phones? Well, no matter what the configuration of your school yard, you can be sure there is not enough supervision.
- Teachers should supervise the yard.
- There should be hard and fast rules of conduct on the yard that are enforced religiously (I am an atheist, but its a great word).
- There should be organized games for the kids that need more organization.
- Rules of the games should be made explicit, and changing them should have a process.
- Bullying.
- Inappropriate play.
- Fighting (an emulation of our fabulously selfish sports heroes)
- Horrible language.
- Segregation.
- Loneliness.